In the year April 2013 I said to Sophie whilst watching her Daddy's freinds doing the tough mudder can you imagine me doing that Babe and I have never known a little girl cackle so much and say oh no mummy I cant.  That stuck in my head and when her Dads freinds and her Dad himself and with some coaxing from me her Step Mummy Sarah did it also  I had to join the team. Oh My Oh My not sure how I managed it but sure Soph was watching down on me as would never got passed the finishing line!!!!  All I kept thinking about was soph cuggling me and cackling that kept me going with of course her saying HHHFFFAS!!  We raised over £5,000 for her charities